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Now that's not the case at all. I didn't want it, I explained it, I tried pulling back, I tried pulling out, I tried everything, I should've stopped it when the kissing and touching from her started. But I didn't, but that doesn't mean I expected it to turn into Sex see the review

When it comes to sexual intercourse, its up to the woman to decide if she wants it, not the man. I don't force myself to when I am with my Fiance basically right now and that's how its been for four years. Its her decision. At anyrate back on topic see the review

With how I felt and what I said even during what was going on, and believe me, I have explained this to her down to a direct grave. I cannot give a legitimate answer because I cannot find a legitimate answer to give. All I can say is that I should have said NO and not done anything AT ALL. She doesn't believe that I was seduced, or didn't realize what was going on when the kissing and touching started. At that point I didn't, but I did fell uncomfortable. But also because this is my 2nd sexual experience but first time with another girl. I didn't know it was going to turn into that see the review

So what I need help with is, how can I honestly explain Legitimately in a way she will understand or believe me that I didn't want this, and that I should have said no but made the mistake of not saying no when the kissing and touching began. She doesn't believe that I felt guilty or regretted it after and she feels that "If you loved me you would've said no, If you loved me you wouldn't have done anything, if you loved me this, if you loved me that." and not once have I blamed her for saying that but having this thrown in your face everyday when you still deal with it yourself when you have the time to think about it is bad enough. Guilt trips aren't fun to deal with and this is one that I need to get out of now so that her and I can be adults for our two children that we have, and we had one at that given time this occurred. We need to work it out and work our way through it, but she is not willing to be cordial and work it out as mature adults instead of childish irrational kids see the review

What do I do, how do i get her to understand my point of view, while I understand her point of view VERY clear? see the review

There is a complex answer to your question and a simple one. The simple one is that you are a human being see the review

People will judge the crap out of you. We are lied to about the reality of human sexuality and taught about fairy tales and religious values and all sorts of nonsense. Then we are confronted with the sorts of situations you find yourself in and we devastate each other's lives because of it see the review

This is a very long and complicated dynamic. If we could figure this out, the world would change immediately see the review

First of all, if you commit to someone you should keep that commitment. Period. The problem is that at 20-25 years old, we are not really capable of making life long commitments like this. In less complex societal structures, fidelity is not challenged as much. Today, it is becoming harder and harder for both men and women to be faithful. Don't believe me, look at the stats see the review

I do think that we should stop making cheating the primary test of love though. If your woman shames you excessively about this, you should leave her. You screwed up and she deserves a man who will never cheat and who will demonstrate his love in the way she needs him to see the review

You, on the other hand, should try harder to avoid situations in which you will find yourself alone with other women. Even when you do this you will STILL be challenged to remain faithful see the review

Never forget that we are human beings and we have basic drives. I honor and respect the men who can stay faithful forever. I cannot and will be single until the day I die. At least I admit this and will always be honest with any women with whom I engage in a relationship see the review

Women are not whores and men are not dogs. We are humans see the review

When humanity can figure this out, we are on our way to good things see the review

Years ago in a relationship we had before, she cheated on me as well, and I was able to forgive her for it...so I don't think leaving and giving up when i have 2 kids with her is an option for my children's sake see the review

Oh! Zebulon! No! Do not think this way. If you allow someone to cheat on you without consequences, forget about what will happen to your feelings. You will teach your children that this is ok. Believe me they will find out see the review

Unfortunately I have had to make this very harsh decision. Interestingly, the whole world will blame YOU for leaving! This is the craziness in which we find ourselves these days. Women have their own version of this, so don't think that men are the only ones suffering in this way see the review

I am very truly sorry for you. Because I have felt these feelings I know how harsh they can be see the review

But you should dig deep and consider your most deeply held values. If you feel bullied into staying because "That's what a REAL man would do" then you are are falling into a very disgusting trap see the review

Think hard on this see the review

Do not listen to me, there are many websites about this. nomoremrniceguy is one. Another is thegoodmenproject. There are also mens rights activists websites that will help you gain perspective. The only thing I will caution you on is that women are not evil. Some men on these sites are so hurt that they take it all out on women. Try to balance this as you read see the review

Good luck. I wish you the best see the review