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call a girl, she answers you ask her out.. if she doesnt you move on and ask another girl out... not come to a dating forum and post WOW she hasnt called me back and its been 2 days. see the review

im pretty sure i loved her so much and we've been dating for about an year and i was so sprung on her but now i dont know whats wrong with me. my feelings changed toward her and i dont know if i love her anymore but i still care for her. i feel that if i leave her im gonna regret it and i feel i cant leave her because theres still something in my mind that tells me i love her. im so confused i feel that she is the only one for me and i need her but i dont feel that love i felt for her before such as kissing, saying i love you, and etc see the review

please tell me how to bring that love feeling back and help me its just frustrating me see the review

So, I have been dating this guy for a few months now and even though in the beginning I wasn’t seeing him as having long term potential I had been slowing coming around. He was really very sweet and made me feel really good at first. I liked him a lot and things were going great, until the last few weeks. First there was the incident where he asked how much money I made and then got upset and said it made him feel uncomfortable because I made twice as much as he did. I actually felt bad about it, even though I knew I hadn’t done anything wrong. After that I tried to avoid talking about my job and even let him pay for almost everything, because he suddenly felt insulted if I offered to pick up the bill for lunch. This was my first red flag, but I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt see the review

Next I ran into a situation that I couldn’t just sweep under the rug and work past. In my past I reached a certain degree of notoriety on the internet and in certain sport circles. Although I have since stepped down and like to keep my private life private, there was a time when there was a lot about me posted on the internet. I had discussed it with him when we first started dating and since he was not involved in that certain sport, he had never heard of me and did not know where he could find information about me. My actual name, was not the name I use to play under and I did not give him my player name and asked that he not try to find it. It wasn’t that I wanted to hide anything from him, but I had more than one relationship crash and burn because of the involvement of certain people on the circuit and I did not want that to be an issue now. Eventually I would have told him whatever he wanted to know, but at such an early stage I didn’t not want to have to address that issue see the review

Well, one day last week I went to his place for lunch and asked if I could use his computer to check my email. He said yes and I went upstairs to use it on my own. As I started to enter the website address the auto fill came up and it was a website that I use to be heavily involved with. When I clicked the drop down arrow I could see that it had every link to every article, blog entry or thread posted about me. I then started checking other sites that had written about me and saw that he had been to them all. While I was doing that, he interrupted me and saw what I was looking at. I simply said to him, “So….you’ve been reading about me?” He said, “No. I surf the net a lot. I have no idea why those sites are there.” I couldn’t believe he was lying to me right to my face see the review

I left right after that and returned to work. It was at that point I suddenly realized what had been happening over the last few weeks. He had all the sudden started asking me a lot of questions about my past like, “Have you ever …..” and things such as that. It lead to a lot of really deep personal conversations that I wasn’t necessarily ready for yet. I thought it was because he was so intuitive and really “knew” me. I now knew it was because he was reading my life story on the internet and then manipulating me into conversation about it. I felt sick. He called me that night and finally confessed to what he was doing. He even admitted that he was essentially “quizzing me” on my past to see if I would lie to him. I asked if I had and he admitted I had been completely upfront about everything see the review

What makes me mad is not that he looked up and read all that stuff about me (its my fault not his that there is so much gossip and rumors floating around online about my personal life), its that he hid it form me and then used it to manipulate me into talking about things. I don’t trust him now. If he had done it and then just told me that he had fallen to curiosity and did it, I would have been annoyed that he had gone against my wishes but I would have gotten over it and then we could have had an honest discussion and I would have answered any questions he had. I wasn’t trying to hide my past from him, I just didn’t want to have to address a bunch of stupid rumors and speculations about my life so early in the relationship. It wasn’t even the act of what he did that has me upset, it was the lies and manipulation that make me think its time to let him go see the review

And ….. then onto strike three. Saturday night, he had offered to watch my daughter for me while I went out to a birthday dinner for a co-worker. We were already on shaky ground because of what happened earlier in the week, but he was doing his best to try to make up for it and I wasn’t ready just yet to write him off. As I dropped off my daughter on the way to meet my friends I was wearing a rather conservative shirt (no cleavage showing) and a pair of jeans with some new shoes I had just gotten. He looked at my shoes and said, “Awful sexy shoes to be wearing when you are going out with out your boyfriend.” I just laughed because I thought he was kidding. He then said, “Looks to me like you are trying to get guys to look at you.” Once I realized he wasn’t kidding, I was dumbstruck. I was dressed really conservatively. I hardly think the sandals I was wearing constituted that kind of a comment see the review

So, now I am left with the realization that he is just extremely insecure and is prone to bouts of jealousy and controlling behavior. I don’t think he is a bad guy, I just think he needs some more time to recover from his failed marriage. It makes me feel really bad because I thought our relationship had potential, but there are just too many red flags too soon. My friends are telling me I should just dump him and not care about how it hurts him because of how he has been acting, but I don’t want to. I do care and I don’t want to crush him see the review

So I guess by your question you are trying to find the right way to end things? see the review

I think you've read the situation correctly. He's intimidated by you, and is trying to control you. I don't think there's any way to dump him without hurting his feelings, and it usually makes it worse if you try see the review

Have you tried talking to him about his insecurity? That might be a good lead up to the break up see the review

Originally Posted by Brad_from_NJ see the review

I think you've read the situation correctly. He's intimidated by you, and is trying to control you. I don't think there's any way to dump him without hurting his feelings, and it usually makes it worse if you try see the review

Have you tried talking to him about his insecurity? That might be a good lead up to the break up see the review

We're kind of in holding pattern right now. He knows I am not happy with what has happened and that I need time to think it all over. My friends say I am being to nice by worrying about hurting him. I don't think I am. Just becasue he did something wrong, doesn't mean he deserves to be crucified. He let his insecurities get the best of him. Hopefully he'll learn from this see the review

Other than dealing wiht the actual event, I haven't had a talk about his insecurities yet. That discussion will probably come into play when I end things. I'm not sure how to approach it see the review

Yes. I think I need to end things now, but i'm not sure how to do it without devistating him. I'm the first woman he has tried to seriously date since his marriage ended. Is there a nice way to end things? see the review

"I dont think we are compatible. Chemistry you know. We should end it. You were really sweet and nice to me and I hope we stay friends." see the review

Few suggestions for future: see the review

Dont spill your guts on internet see the review