Well to be fair, I have heard people explain how multidating allows one to maintain some emotional distance, and I can see how that might work. You're not as emotionally invested in one person due to the fact that you've got other people around. Probably takes longer to get caught up in one person, as you're forced to spread your dates out. I guess the goal is to figure out a way to feel each other out at a slower pace than the natural tendency when one is exclusive and hungry for intimacy
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