So yesterday, me and the guy who I’ve been meeting for one month now (just became official last weekend) had plans to meet up after work. He said he would be there around 7pm. After showering, 7pm rolls around and he texts me. I ask him where he is. He says that he unexpectedly ran into or received a message from a friend at the subway station (not sure exactly because his first lang is not English) and he asked me if meeting Thursday was okay instead (I already told him earlier this week that I’m not free Thursday)
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We see each other once or twice a week, but what bugs me is that this friend of his could have made plans to see him if he cared about him that much
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This is my third serious relationship and I want to be as mature and understanding as possible. So I didn’t give him a hard time about it at all
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That was very inconsiderate and rude. If his explanation is truthful (I have doubts about that), he should have prioritized you. I honestly could not date someone who would do that to me. I expect the person I’m dating to be consistently reliable and considerate
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I agree with the others that it was rude. I could see how he might have asked to change the plans but to just cancel last minute wouldn't be acceptable to me unless it was something really huge and rare like a family member in the hospital. Things aren't looking good with this guy IMO
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Ugh. Dating around here is so hard, and it would be so disappointing if after finally finding someone who really likes me, he turns into a Dbag. I’ll try not to let my judgment get clouded though
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Carhill, I’m glad that worked out for you. I’ve been trying to meet friends more but as they’re so busy, even with friends it’s hard to meet except once in a blue moon even my “best friend” who I haven’t met this whole month after repeated attempts to get together never offers an alternate time. It’s been rough and I need to make new friends
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Beware of the expectations thing. Boundaries are cool. If your boundary is a day's advance notice on cancellations, as example, that's the deal. Communicate it. I recall Sean Connery's comment in 'Entrapment' .... 'I'll be there. If I'm late, I'm dead'. That's definitive. If you need a guy like that, you do. Billions of us around
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Gaeta, that is right. I’ll try to get the full story. It wasn’t clear how long it had been since he met this friend or where he lives. All he said was “We haven’t met in a long time, and we can’t meet up next week or the week after.”
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There are a LOT of threads about this recently and a few of the guys said they would never ever pay for a date or even so much as a pencil and they still get dates, so I guess it's wide open!
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Women have more opportunities than men on the dating/mating market, and it would be very expensive for most women to pay their own way on the initial dates. Yes, it is still expensive for men, but may be more so for women given how many suitors she has. If you're a player, then it can get real expensive, as you know (unless you can be creative and learn to date without money, which is possible!)
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There are a LOT of threads about this recently and a few of the guys said they would never ever pay for a date or even so much as a pencil and they still get dates, so I guess it's wide open!! Many of us women though said that they much appreciate being taken out and NOT because they're greedy!! It's just romantic!
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OK, so it sounds like my small sample of friends/colleges may just be too deep pocketed and/or dating women that see them as meal tickets
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Picking up the bill is just one of those things that indicates to a woman you would be a good provider for her and the 10s of offsprinds she'll give you. Back in the days you proved yourself by bringing a fat dead hog and nowadays you do it by picking up the bill. It's just residuals from the way we were wired hundreds of years ago
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I’m not shopping him around. I like him the best, hands down. I’m genuine but I have a hard time trusting most men at face value. Also, he is not aware I’m dating other guys, well just 1 other guy
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