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Class, education, money, earning potential, confidence, personality, fun factor, etc. all play a role. People tend to fit in best with people who are similar to themselves, similar back ground, similar family, similar education, similar interests, similar sense of humour... etc - A guy your mum will like or a girl who fits right into your family see the review

Again there are exceptions but no-one can bank on exceptions see the review

Boxes get ticked on first meeting, and if an important one is missing then it is a no-go see the review

The problem some people have is that they over estimate or under estimate their own worth, so pitch to the wrong audience see the review

As I've said 100 times already, no, they're not getting "no" guys, and even if they were getting "no" guys, then they prefer that to getting a guy they hate. If they didn't prefer it, they wouldn't do it. Get that through your head see the review

To want to know a person, you have to first be attracted to them and find them appealing. If you don't, there's no point in getting to know them. Why don't you look on OKCupid and go out with every single girl in your city regardless of job, looks, and personality in order to get to know them? Answer that question without dodging it for the third time. You probably don't want to because you have no interest in them by looking at their profile. So you decided you don't want to go out with them because you have no interest in them and you aren't attracted to them see the review

Now answer this: What's the difference between deciding that after looking at their page for 5 seconds and actually meeting them and talking for an hour, and then deciding you don't want to go out with them because you have no interest in them and you aren't attracted to them. People who go out with you, regardless of how long or how many times, are the ones giving you more of a chance see the review

I agree with all the above. Well said. I have come across the attitude on forums before that women should have to take whoever they can get if they don't get the guys they like, so there's enough to go around. Well, sorry, but maybe some women are more willing to do that than others. Someone codependent might be willing to do that, but most women I know would rather be alone than to be in a sexual relationship with someone they are not attracted to, and it doesn't matter how good they think they are in bed, because sex isn't the #1 goal of most women and they can always get themselves off. And I guess that's why it's seems so crazy that men get so desperate about finding someone to have sex with. Good grief, most single women over 45, which is their sexual prime, would still rather be with no one than with someone they found unattractive on whatever level. You certainly can't say that of men in their sexual prime late teens/early 20s. It's like a feeding frenzy and they will often sleep with anyone willing if that's the only way they can get sex. And THAT is why men think women ought to think the same way, but we don't, and you can't make us! see the review

I think the problem here is most women don't seem to advocate wanting a really hot, physically attractive guy and instead are emphasizing that the non-superficial aspects are a lot more important. Sure some women do make it plain obvious that they want a really hot guy...but not all do. So then you're typical "nice guy" gets upset when he gets rejected because he thinks he has all these important non-superficial characteristics. It might be easier if women that really want a hot guy, make that clearly known in their online dating profiles That way I can avoid sending them a message.. see the review

Thank you. That's all I way saying see the review

Words and actions. If you want an attractive guy just stay so. There's nothing bad about saying what you want see the review

When people say, "I have a good job, I work out... Why can't I attract this and that" see the review

It's not an equation. There's no formula. You can only control you see the review

She has the right to have her own standards. But that doesn't mean the way she's going about finding someone who meets those standards makes any sense. The instant spark requirement that many gals have these days is not only unrealistic, it's also crazy. These gals are expecting to feel an instant spark from a stranger, and if they don't feel it, they repeat the process with another stranger. That's insane see the review

No one ever suggested these gals should date every single guy in their city, which I think you know isn't possible. What I am saying is that with the ones they do choose to accept a date with, they need to be serious and mature about taking the time to get to know them, otherwise it's a waste of everyone's time. That's doesn't happen with the one and done dating style and the instant spark philosophy of dating that has become an epidemic among young women see the review

I keep reading about the disappointment these gals feel when they don't get that sparky feeling with a guy so they give up on him. What these women don't understand is that an instant spark is completely unrelated to a person's suitability for a relationship, and it does not equal love. It would be wonderful if most people who met online hit it off with the spark right away, and spend the next twenty years together, but that doesn't happen, and it is unreasonable for gals to expect it. It's time for women to let go of that love at first sight fairy-tale, and they would much better off for it see the review

I get the feeling that you don't respect a women's right to make up her own mind and decide what's right for herself. Call me old fashioned, but I think that's oppressive and misogynistic. I only go out with people I have interest in because I'm not so stupid to waste my time thinking that I might magically become attracted and interested in someone after 3 hours when I hadn't before. I realize people just want what's best for themselves and I want them to make their own decisions and pursue their own paths to happiness on their own terms, whatever they might be, without suggesting that I know what's better for them see the review

The concept is not offensive, it's just time consuming and impractical see the review

It's only a second date. If the person you meet grows on you, like what happened with the married friend I mentioned, and you end up spending the rest of your life with them, I'd say that's a big payoff for a minimal investment see the review

The notion that you think the natural evolution of society and technology that people are choosing to immerse themselves in willingly isn't expediting things is ludicrous. It's like you're saying "Why does everyone drive cars? Cars can crash sometimes so they're a bad idea. I tried a car once and I didn't like it. Therefore, everyone should have to walk everywhere." see the review

Not ludicrous at all. How do you explain, with all this dating technology that there are proportionately more single people than there have ever been? It's because these dating apps are not the answer at best, and are making things worse at worst. They have taken the romance out of dating. They have complicated dating in ways we never predicted, making it easier for us to reduce human beings to just one option in a long pile of messages. Dating has become very impersonal see the review

What you still haven't answered is this: if people were unhappy with the way they're doing things, why would they continue to do them? see the review