Now, this really seems like a worse possible case of bad timing, blown opportunities, and poor communication. You never really got to know the guy very well. (And contrary to what happened, he's every bit the guy you thought he was - genuine, good-looking, smart, albeit a little tentative - but you don't know this because you never got to know him.) What are the chances that you'll give it another go, taking into consideration the horrible timing, the fact that you're now in a different city, and the fact that you were really interested in this guy from the start but never really got a chance to get to know him? At this point, what's the best thing the guy can do for himself?
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