Topically, my experiences with married women as an OM cause me to opine it is their 'aura' which attracts men far and wide. Within the 'safe' haven of their M, they taunt and titillate men, wantonly wielding their sexual power, something single women are more selective with. Men with strong boundaries resist; in the past I had weak/ill defined boundaries and often succumbed to their charms. Lately, with stronger boundaries, resistence is easier
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