She is 18 and I am 21. We have been together for just around 3 weeks. We became ''facebook official'' a few days ago. She told me when we got together that she doesn't like to see her boyfriend too much. She said a couple of times a week at most. We both work awkward times, so it's actually sometimes really hard to find time to see her. Aswell as this, her mum is really protective and doesn't let her out much, so when I do see her it's only for a couple of hours here and there, she isn;t even allowed to come round mine because her mum doesn't like it! I am going to a friends' 21st party Tonight and she is coming with me. I told herwe are going up town after it's finished, but she said she doesn't want to ever go clubbing with me as she would rather just do that with friends. Is this normal? She is still a virgin and would never cheat on me or kiss another guy etc, BUT she has told me that if she goes out with her mates and have a lot to drink that she wouldn't be able to control her actions and may end up kissing a guy without wanting too! She told me she turned a guy down for sex when she was on a family holiday last week. I really like her, she is amazingly pretty (too hot maybe as she gets ALL the guys attention) but it just worries me why she wouldn't want to go out for a night etc with me. She said it's important to have our own liveswhich is true, but surely we should spend some time together? She is so naive aswell and when a guy makes a move on her, she can't always see what is happening and just think the guy is being sweet and kind and will therefore give away the wrong signals and will never tell him where to go, but instead she will talk to him, cuddle him (thinking its ''sweet'' etc). Please don't suggest ending it with her as thats the last thing I want, just some advice if possible please?!
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