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I have to say it would be one of the most stupid things you could possibly do. You will lose not only your relationship but your job as well. If you're looking to throw your entire life into disarray then this is probably one of the most efficient ways to do it see the review

Ummm. Yeah. What Pete said. So you are in an exclusive relationship and you're asking if you should sleep with your boss' wife? Dude! If you don't know the answer to that.................. see the review

Don't let yourself think you are that knight in shining armor that is going to be save her from her marraige or her life -- she is the only one that can do that -- if she even wants to be saved. Some people just have the relationship they have and it looks strange from the outside by an outsider -- but they are actually very much in sync and in click with each other see the review

So, I'm new to all of this please bare with me through the long post see the review

But hey,what do I know? see the review

OP will be lucky to get a job selling Steak Knives door to door when HR is done with him...lol see the review

Do you really think you should make a post about whether this is appropriate or not? see the review

The reason I told the first story about the guy who said I was a cheat is because my bf said something very weird when we were on our way back from the staff party. He said that it would be 'bad for my reputation' if I broke up with him and got with the guy he worked with.. which I had no intention on doing (also the guy in question wouldn't look twice at me anyway lol) but I don't understand what he meant by it, I asked and he just said about how it wouldn't look good for me with my past being what it is. I'm guessing he means that first situation but he knows the truth there and I'm just in such a mess basically that I feel trapped between a rock and a hard place. I've never cheated on anyone and that is the absolute truth and I don't plan on changing that, I just want to stop hurting without hurting anyone else in the process. I'll admit it was nice talking to someone who was listening and responding lol, but that was it. Even with everything my bf has done, I wouldn't get with his co-worker and hurt him like that. I think I want to break up with my bf, I'm not sure to be honest. I feel like I've tried everything to make the bad better and he just won't help see the review

Did you tell yet? see the review

OP, you have learned something very important: you are most definitely not in love with your boyfriend anymore see the review

This was an emotional-turned-physical affair. That is a different ball of wax than a random one-night betrayal after a wild night out, for example. The level you reached is a scary one, but it indicates that you are not being honest with yourself or your boyfriend about how much you love him. This was active, ongoing deception see the review

What this suggests to me, unfortunately, is that you are so checked out of your relationship that you are likely to cheat again. Even if you promise him never to do so, it doesn't undo the bigger problem which is that you are not committed to him and are curious about other guys to the point of acting on your desires. In my opinion, you and your boyfriend are far too young and inexperienced to stay together forever at this point. My advice would be yes, tell him, and prepare to separate see the review

it's not always cut and dry. Sometimes it increases the bond, not tear it apart. Depends on the individual. Not everyone is willing to completely write off a relationship over a indiscretion, or even an affair. Life is just like that see the review

I do not think OP will be one of them see the review

Had it been a one night stand or a drunken romp one time, then I could see where the relationship may survive if she had been forthcoming right away see the review

Op,though, is trying to control the outcome in order to suffer the least amount of damage to herself regardless of the fact that in her opinion, what she did is at the end of the day, not that bad see the review

And that is why I doubt not only that will the relationship survive, but also why I don't think OP really has a clue as to exactly why what she has done will merit a scorched earth reaction from her poor boyfriend see the review

"I don't want to be screwed out of a long term engagement just because I screwed somebody else 5 times. It's not like I am in love with them" see the review

This won't be one of them see the review

Smackie, you do make a good point see the review

I, who am an absolutist "burn the witches" type am also well aware that for some, this type of thing is not a deal breaker, and in some cases it has for odd reasons, allowed some couples to survive and thrive see the review

The only thing I would add to your statement is that in my opinion, most of those who do survive these things and thrive in their relationship do so because hey take the bull by the horns and work on themselves to become a safe person to be around, regardless of the outcome see the review