who is to say what attracts us to another......sometimes you might not be attracted to someone physically.....i wasnt with my ex..he was a body builder and intimidated me...a true clioud person with a massive back arms cheat and legs like tree trunks...because i am not really into huge muscles...intimidating...he was massive but he showed me his soft side through a close friendship he listened and understood me,he did charity work with disabled kids..... and i slowly fell in love with him and his heart......our sex life as off the charts.......when we eventually were together...it is possible to fall in love with the person first and then everything about them becomes endearing.....physically...found this recently...fell in love with a soft soul, and everything about him his smile his eyes his voice was endearing to me his height his looks....his heart was already visible.......so much so no one comes close......but what is..... shall be and he isnt for me......you should be with someone you feel strongly for...and if you cant be with that person be with someone who feels that way about you...thats my solution....cant be with the one you love, love the one you are with and grow to love them......if they love you, love them too
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