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Going to a bar or club is out of the question. You don't fit in, and you can't pretend. You'll get a girl, but you're going to have to do a little work on yourself first. Girls like security, and if you're insecure about yourself, you need to fix that. If you think it's harder than it seems, you're right, but you're 24...you have time. "Getting security" takes time, effort, and determination. I'm assuming you're employed? If not, get a job...use it as a "school of life" and begin to work on things. If you don't have a workout program, start one....and determine it's for life. A workout program over time, builds your self confidence and esteem in ways that supplement your inner work. Work on communication and listening skills. "The Gentle Art of Verbal Self Defense" by Suzette Hayden Elgin I highly recommend to use as a foundation. A formula I live by: Will + Faith + Purpose = Power. Power is the ability to change things, because you can. Faith is your personal self confidence which is increased every time you exercise your personal "Will" successfully see the review

I am VERY anti-social and always have been. I went through what I call "personal reform" at 29. The above scratches the surface of what I worked on but I'm willing to come back to this if you're interested see the review

People like us, unlike the rest of the world who can go from point A to point B without too much trouble. People like us however, we have to go from point A to point AB, to B, but once we learn to adapt ourselves we can go from A to AB to B so fast, nobody notices see the review

You'll get there with a little work. If I can do it, anyone can. I have enjoyed a very successful love life as a result of my inner work. It took me ten years, hopefully it won't take you as long see the review

We're brothers actually. I may not have social anxiety or phobia, but I was very unsuccessful socially all my life until I went through "personal reform." And even now, I'm successful to a point...I'm still extremely anti-social, only now I can succeed socially. I go into the world, (work, other) and withdraw to my home. I never have visitors other than my fiancee's family or my son. Anyone else is an intruder. (I could write a book here, but I'm pretty sure you understand.) see the review

I wish you luck and like I said, I'll go deeper if you'd like see the review

I was telling my bf i saw an old coworker today whose hubby had gotten woman pregnant tgey had a threesome with. (Baby is a toddler now... he pays c.s, and tgey get visitation.) see the review

Bf had told me he had one years ago with gf and her friend... And of course... Ended badly... he regretted see the review

So i was surprised when he said if we werent togethe n he met two sisters or first cousins on popular hiking trail and they wanted a piece of him... He would go for it... If he didnt have see em again. My response was shock... Duh... didnt I learn lesson... And i didnt thinl u were a man whore. He went on justifying it see the review

Double standatd ... I am sure... but i said what if I said same thing about twp coudobs or brothers??? Yikes see the review

Originally Posted by luvinthesun see the review

So i was surprised when he said if we werent togethe n he met two sisters or first cousins on popular hiking trail and they wanted a piece of him... He would go for it... If he didnt have see em again see the review

Is this normal? I am sure he was being honest. see the review

Of course it's normal. Threesomes are a big fantasy for a lot of men see the review

Heck, if I met two gorgeous men on a hiking trail and they wanted a piece of me.... Hmmmmmmmmmm.. see the review

Its just a fantasy. Notice hes not willing to do it if its with people who will stay in his life because he understands the drama it can cause. So hes not up for actually doing it, especially because hes with you see the review

So its no biggie. A fantasy is a fantasy. Women have 3 some fantasies about 2 guys sometimes, and Im not gonna stone them for it see the review

That's just the way it is. Don't argue with social norms see the review

There are a lot of things men can't do it too see the review

If a guy did 3 some with 2 women, he can brag about it see the review

If a girl did 3 some with 2 guys, she would be considered whxre see the review

(and they will do their best to hide about it) see the review