Lastly - I am sorry - 5'2" and a size 14 is not "in fair shape." You are probably shapely, yes, but that sounds heavy for your frame. I know, I was 5'4" and size 14 for YEARS. The fact that you have already lost 40 pounds is fabulous and I would emphasize your physical activities. There are lots of men out there who love women shaped like us, but you need to call it what it is: Zaftig
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