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I think that's an arrogant rationalization. And a decision better made by him, no? see the review

You need different friends. Yours are woefully uneducated about the risks of oral sex and your best friend, well, no comment. I'm hoping that is their immaturity and lack of life experience speaking see the review

We can't force you to tell him. If you want to carry the burden of this and pretend all is well, go forth. I think you will see that this taints your relationship in ways you can't yet predict, though. You know the truth and that guilt will likely manifest over time. Your boyfriend won't know quite what the problem is, but he'll probably begin to sense something is wrong. I have seen this happen numerous times see the review

You better also never cross any of the friends who know what happened, or that they don't gossip about it it with their own boyfriends or anyone else, or you could find your boyfriend coming to you after "a little birdie" put a bug in his ear about your secret. Yes, I have seen that happen too see the review

Incorrect. We do understand. We just don't empathize and won't coddle you or feel sorry for you see the review

I understand that you do not want to "break his heart," but it really sounds like your bigger worry is for yourself--having him break up with you. Let's not paint this as being some altruistic decision on your part see the review

I think you need some therapy to get over your self loathing that led you into this situation in the first place. Feeling you only have value for what your physical appearance and body look like is not going to serve you well in the long run because your body is aging and looks will begin to change and fade. What happens when your boyfriend stops gushing over how beautiful you are and you're left with not feeling loved because you think you have nothing else to offer? You're going to seek out that validation somewhere else, again, and you'll cheat again, guaranteed. (I was married to the male version of you) see the review

As far as how to tell your boyfriend, even though we all know you won't, just simply say, "I cheated." The conversation will naturally evolve from there see the review

Finally, don't listen to your dumb friends. You can get, at the very least, HPV from oral sex. Are your friends doctors? No? Why are you taking medical advice from friends who didn't stop you when you were self-destructing that night? see the review

Your friends are ignorant about STDs. You most certainly can catch them from oral. Google it. Plus taking a man in your mouth is more intimate IMO see the review

How nice of you but what I really think you mean is you don't want to ruin your own chance at marriage and children see the review

This is sad that you don't have anything else to offer but your looks. Everyday your looks are going south whether you see it or realize it. One day they will be gone and no amount of plastic surgery, botox and fillers can bring it back. I would suggest that you explore and find your true talents see the review

OP, while this statement is true somehow it falls right in line with your self image and allowing your looks and beauty to define you will never pay a dividend other than you will always have suitors that want to bang you, then chew you up and spit you out. And while that may be exciting when you are young and feel invincible, one day you will wake up with your looks gone, your fair weather friends nowhere to be found and the realization you have more days behind you than ahead of you see the review

I cannot stress enough how important it is to you to actually stand for something. I have a long track record of standing for nothing for many years until I had a massive crisis with infidelity that landed me in jail for 4 years and I had to grow up real quick. But I emerged wanting to improve my life and I could only do that by changing my playpens, playthings and playmates. It took a long time and I mean DECADES for me to change but indeed I did. I learned my lesson in the most awful way possible. And I stepped over a lot of skeletons I had to revisit years later in order to grow. And it is an ongoing process see the review

Please have more respect for yourself than I did for myself when I was your age see the review

OP, I was in your boyfriend's shoes but found out years after we were married. I am more pissed that my W made MY life decisions for me while SHE got to make informed decisions about our relationship. You really don't care about your boyfriend and what he wants, just as my wife didn't. You really aren't keeping it from him because you don't want to hurt HIM, you are keeping it a secret to protect YOURSELF and avoid the consequences of your choice to cheat, just like my wife did. If you end up marrying him and he eventually finds out, he will question the foundation of your entire relationship, how many times you really cheated on him, how many lies you have told him, whether you are the person he thought you were, and on & on & on. What gives you the right to keep this from him when it could impact one of the biggest life decisions he will ever make? Your choice to cheat was bad but your decision to keep this from him is nothing short of cruel and selfish see the review

Originally Posted by tough love see the review

OP, wouldn't you want to come clean and give him a chance to make and informed choice when it comes to a relationship with you? Maybe he will be willing to give you a second chance if you come clean, but the longer you wait, the more he will be resentful. Do you want him to be with you because he chooses to do so making an informed decision or do you want him to stay with you because you decided for him and tricked, lied or deceived him into staying with you or possibly feels stuck with you if he finds out years later when yu possibly have a family? Personally, I would want someone with me because they chose to be with me after making an informed decision see the review

This is a good point see the review

The act in and of itself is grounds for breaking up. You're only adding to that probability with each day you allow him to remain in the dark see the review

It's unlikely he will never find out about this. I don't think you comprehend the level of betrayal he's going to feel if you withhold this information for months, pretending all the while that everything is fine see the review

He will look back on the previous few months and be sick to his stomach that someone he presumably loved and trusted lied to his face (by omission) every day see the review