Some people might think this is disgusting, but here goes! Okay, my problem... I have been seeing a man for 5 months secretly. He is 54. I am 21. We have never said we love each other, we only love each other as close friends, as a full time relationship would not work out. We absolutely love the company of each other. Recently, a guy 1yr older than me has come into my life. We are friends, but he asked me out for tea a few nights ago. I couldn't go as I had something else on. I do like him, but my passion for the 54yr old is still strong. I find myself thinking about him a lot. My biggest fear is, if I date this younger guy, I will still be thinking about 54yr old. I really don't want that. I have talked to 54yr old about a possibility of a relationship with this new guy, and he said we couldn't continue with our relationship, to which he was very understanding. We still are very much into each other, but I know one day that I need to move on and meet someone around my age. Has anyone got any suggestions on whether give it a little longer and then date younger guy? Or ditch 54yr old now and go for younger guy? I am so double minded and confused as to what I should do!!! I am also a little nervous as this Friday younger guy and me are going to a concert together and having tea. It will probably turn into something
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