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I should have just casually asked who that was in the moment, but I didn’t want to be ‘that person’. Instead, I’ve spent the last three days perseverating. I have been rethinking everything – since I’ve seen her name before, how often do they text when I am not around? Does he talk to her, see her? It just doesn't feel like he'd do that. While he spends pretty much all of his free time with me and is always available when I am, this got me thinking to the day this text came in – on Friday he told me he may grab a drink with his best friend Saturday, but then Saturday (we were together) when I asked him what time he was meeting him, he said he wasn’t going to go, he really wasn’t in the mood to have a drink with him, etc. etc. So now I am wondering if his plans with his best friend were really with her? It is bothering me so much that I went through old texts of ours to identify any suspicious gaps or times he could be with someone else, and honestly, I am driving myself nuts see the review

It just doesn’t make sense to me though …. I spent that day with him and his grandfather, he invited me to do something with him and his brother’s family the next day (which I couldn’t, had plans) and made plans with his group of friends. Things have been moving along well, we are communicating more than we ever had in the past and spending time together often. He involves me in every part of his life, I don’t know when he’d even have time to have something on the side going on, but in my past I have learned this doesn’t really matter. When I was married, my husband and I had just had twins and bought our first home, and I found out he was meeting women off of the internet while at work, met someone (with three children of her own) and she was moving to our area (from 2 hours away) to be with him. In one night he met her while he was allegedly working the overnight, he “changed his mind” about what he wanted in life and it was no longer us (his words). Obviously, the deterioration of our marriage didn’t over one night, but from my perspective. I found out many things afterwards that make me believe he was/is some sort of sociopath. Anyway … see the review

So, this has really triggered my past trust issues that I have worked hard on. I beat myself up for a long time about the red flags I must’ve missed with my ex-husband, so much so that I obsessively look for them and am constantly thinking that the person I am dating “changed their mind” – that is always a theme with me. At the same time, while this feels extremely wrong to me, I feel like my radar for this kind of stuff is broken. Part of me screams run away now, part of me thinks it is ridiculous to do so without having any clue what the text was about see the review

You understand sketchy behavior because your spider senses are tingling. Why on earth would he not answer the text in front of you if things are on the up and up? IME, when a man won't respond to a text in front of you, it's because it's from someone he doesn't want you to know about in a area of his life that is closed off to you see the review

I was following your other thread and read that you had met up with your ex. I had a feeling that meet up would lead to you two getting into a relationship again, although I hoped it wouldnt see the review

The texts are concerning, for sure. It does seem like he's hiding something. see the review

I dont have much hope for this guy considering your history with him. I wouldnt trust him with my heart if I were you see the review

Talk to him, ask him questions in a non-confrontational, straightforward manner and keep us posted see the review

The fact that you feel unsafe asking him AND you don't fully trust him is something you both need to work on together see the review

Question 1- Have you two talked anymore about the future? Last thing I saw, he said he could see you guys being together forever and being happy. However you also mentioned a difference in future plans. see the review

I don't believe you are over reacting in your worries about the texts, but given your history, don't let him know that see the review

I hope this little blip in your radar jumps ahead and you guys can continue on the path to exploring the future! HUGS see the review

It continues to not sit well with me, despite everything appearing to be 'normal', our at least our current normal. I will try to answer any questions/comments in one post: see the review

Hi Dis! While I have seen this name before, it has been only in the last three months. I believe she is someone he met while we were broken up. At first, I had no concerns, he was so appreciative that I even agreed to talk with him again, I would have never thought he'd consider screwing that up! Lol ... But, I am thinking that, even if they don't spend time together, maybe she is the backup plan. If that is the case, she can certainly become his number one! I didn't go into this naively (if that's a word) and I've been cautious but optimistic. After this, my optimism is waning ... We have talked (at length) at why we broke up, his role in it, etc. and I actually feel comfortable with that, but I don't kid myself to think that means we will make it. (especially depending on how this turns out) see the review

Why else would he act so secretive? If he has no problem opening other people's messages in front of you, there's no other reason he'd avoid reading some woman's message see the review

I remember your thread, newheart, even though I've never posted in it. It surprises me that you're together again. You've already found out how he handles relationship problems, which is probably why you're afraid of confrontation right now. Tell him what's on your mind and see how he handles it. Might be he keeps an orbiter just to feel less "trapped" and more "free" since he's an avoidant see the review

It doesn't mean that what he is hiding is sinister, but he might think you will take it the wrong way when his intentions aren't bad see the review

So I work with this girl and I was telling her a story about a female customer that complimented. I told her that she was pretty attractive and I would take her out rollerblading if I had the chance see the review

The other the day she organized my papers into a nice neat pile after I just threw them together. Yesterday she told me again to just put them over there because she was going to tidy them up for me see the review

Yesterday I came back from break and I was tapping my fingers vigorously on the counter because I was annoyed about something. she asked me what was wrong. I told her nothing and throughout the day she kept trying to get me to talk. She also told me to feel better and that she loved me. Also, when I was getting ready to leave she told me that she loved me again see the review

Today, she said I can tell something is wrong, so I told her this week has been rough and she said "aww do you want a hug". I told her no, that I was fine. She asked a little while later if things were better. After that she said that she comes into work to please me while smiling see the review

She also told me to feel better and that she loved me. Also, when I was getting ready to leave she told me that she loved me again see the review