In the meantime get your mind off of her. Go running, get involved in some activities, Move onto the next girl. If you hold on too tightly it will push her away, just as she has said. If you give her the space she needs she may come back to you when she is ready. But make sure she is in it for the long haul and not flaking on you again. Those ups and downs are hard on emotions, yours and hers
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